If you have taken care of all the four weak links above you have won the war!
Your perimeter is now secure. Like all wars, Project Secure-House was sometimes challenging but the taste of victory makes it all worthwhile.
The 3-layer philosophy may appear to be overkill. Believe me, it is not! No parental control is infallible and this is not either. What this does is this: It buys you precious time; time to do some effective parenting, have an open dialog and build accountability. Setting up the 3-layer protection system gains even more importance if you have an adult in your family who is struggling with pornography addiction or masturbation addiction. You can help them buy time with this system; time to let recovery kick-in and heal them. As a recovering porn addict, they will be eternally grateful to you and to this protection system.
Any war-hardened soldier will tell that that victory is not the end of war. There is a need to forever be vigilant and secure your boundaries. Stay forever alert and keep checking your weak links. Anytime you feel the chink in your armor widen, think of the helpless sea lion surrounded by the killer whales! Then, shake off that vivid image and redo the 3-layer system.
Comrades, we salute you for a job well done!
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